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Aesthetically damaged

The obsession for aesthetics has caused many males issues, except it was not their choice. Society has pushed the “cut” look so much that it has become the standard. American media constantly portrays the natural male phallus as dirty, disgusting and undesirable. It has become so interwoven with unpleasantness that mothers constantly on social media shame men who are unaltered.

They go as far as while explaining why they are opting for it for their sons to explain they would never perform oral on a man left natural, by getting their son cut they are “ensuring” he will never have that problem.

They impose their sexual preference upon their own children and believe that he will find a partner as shallow as she is. I say shallow because any man who has made a comment negatively about a womans body has been told he is being shallow. There are women who would scold anyone who would suggest altering their body to fit his desire, yet there are mothers who are preemptively altering their sons for just this reason for the sons future partner. Why is this acceptable?

These women often have others backing them up after being influenced for years to believe what should be an acceptable looking penis. These are probably the same women that celebrate all the different shapes of labia. There are art projects to the different labia of women, large and small, thick and thin. There are pictures painting labia as flowers blooming while critiques of the foreskin are comparing it to images of an anteater, turtle neck, elephant trunk and anything else that erodes the idea of appeal. It is often shown in relation to feminine power. Foreskin however in America has become synonymous with ugliness and shame.

The double standards of what is acceptable for genitalia in way of looks if very telling. The sexuality of women has become very celebrated as of late while male sexuality has been demonized.

Fathers have become complacent. Remembering back to their teenage years they remember how difficult and awkward sexual relations were back then. They in turn are willing to do anything that might make it easier for their sons, because of the social standard they dare not allow their son anything that might impede in this endeavor. Knowing that the major consensus among the American women is that foreskin is deemed disgusting they opt for it to be amputated. Never having known themselves the many lost nerves within the foreskin, off it goes without second thought.

We injure our sons in a attempt to seek what is considered the desired aesthetic while taking away the desired pleasure.

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The Lost among us

This 4th of July when you think about freedom and independence remember those who lost their freedom, the the lives lost at a young age. I am not talking about soldiers, I am talking about baby boys who never were able to see the age of 1 because a unnecessary surgery was forced upon them.

Every year there are a number of boys who die due to circumcision. The hemorrhage and bleed out, or complications like infections setting in.

Whenever I bring up that around 100 die like this each year I am met with a response of “that’s not many” or “that’s not a lot”, let that sink in. How many boys have to die from this before its unacceptable? At what point do we say we have hit the point of concern? What is the number society is willing to accept before it finally realizes it’s not worth the risk for a surgery that is purely cosmetic when done to an infant?

Below is a link about the boys who have died from circumcision, please read and ask why risk it?

http://wisewomanwayofbirth.com/circumcision-dirty-little-secrets-exposed/

The Mental Disconnect of Parents

These are but a few of the common attitudes seen towards the cutting of boys. Some parents will either try and somehow act as if they are the ones in pain while their boys are having tissue that is perfectly healthy and able to do the functions it is responsible for amputated, others are surprised there sons put up a fight against this barbarity while being completely oblivious to the harm they are allowing to be inflicted upon them and then there are the parents who have a total lack of compassion along with full ignorance of the situation by being inappropriate in their levity.

I have seen posts where mothers justify the cutting by stating they would never give oral to a man who was not circumcised, pushing their sexual preferences upon their sons as if to say they speak for all women. Some even goes as far as to shame the natural body of their sons in a fashion that would cause a uproar of anger if a man said something along the lines about a daughter.

Some have called their sons penises cute, have talked about how nurses have complimented their son on his freshly circumcised penis, pedophilic speech that otherwise would cause concern.

Fathers as well stating now there should be no issue in future sex partners refusing to go down on their sons. Fathers who themselves have never know what it is they missed out on as they too had it forced upon them and refuse to research in fear of what they may find.

Many parents admit that it is for cosmetic reasons, not medical. They would rather force their child be to conform to a societal standard of perfection than find it on their own. They use outdated fears of taunting in locker rooms, fear of girls making fun of him and irrational stigmas to perpetuate reasoning they feel is sound to allow the surgery.

New Name and mission.

The primary objective is to point out the indifference to the men who have suffered at the misguided belief that circumcision is not harmful. There are many men who have been negatively impacted by circumcision having been done to them as a child and the majority of the time are told basically it’s okay because most men are fine. We are told straight to our faces and online that we were botched and it happens, stop complaining. While yes many surgeries have the potential to have complications, unnecessary ones that end in complications while being done to a child is abhorrent.

There are infants who never get to enjoy a first birthday. Often to this when stated it is around a hundred a year, the justification I often here is that’s not many. My response is usually until it’s your child, right? Every week I am seeing a new article or post about a child whose circumcision did not go right and has to endure another surgery to fix the complications of the first. When will people notice it is not uncommon for complications to happen. How many of us will it take before we have hit the threshold of the allowed damaged?

Indoctrination

I just love how all religion loves to blame us for everything that they do. They say that we are trying to indoctrinate young kids into being gay, but let’s take a look at who’s really indoctrinating kids.
Once you are born any religious family there are rituals are performed when you’re not even old enough to think. Ritual such as baptisms, and christenings.  Then you’re taking the church every sunday what do you want to or not, then Sunday school,  first communion, and if your parents are really into it a school of your denomination.  While we are only trying to inform it is the religious who are indoctrinating kids!

Holier than thou mentality

Watching a lot of YouTube videos and listening to a lot of conservatives it seems that they believe that their opinions mean a lot more those who do not believe in God. Why should their opinion matter more than mine? I pay taxes the same as them, I have love in my heart the same as them, but I do not act as if I’m superior to other people. Now I will say that I believe that there isn’t tolerance on both sides, but unlike the religious right and conservatives I have never heard of anybody calling for their heads or for them to be killed. I have heard religious leaders saying that we should be killed, that the government should be in charge of it, or that we should be put into internment camps. I have heard them talk about us as if we were subhuman, and like a disease that doesn’t go away. I have been asked when I used to go to church to sign a petition for people be fired based on their sexual orientation not being straight. I have been fired from a job after an accusation of being a Satanist just because of a drawing while the week before I had been tied down into my bed and beaten. The ones who had beat me were given an order to apologize to me and they got to keep their job, the leader of the scamp that I worked at was a pastor. I have had advancement possibilities dropped from me after was found out that I was an agnostic. I have had people not want to be my friends because I don’t believe in going to church. I have been harassed at work about going to church when I went to my boss and he took the side of the guy harassing me stating that he’s just trying to save my soul.

Holier than thou mentality

Watching a lot of YouTube videos and listening to a lot of conservatives it seems that they believe that their opinions mean a lot more those who do not believe in God. Why should their opinion matter more than mine? I pay taxes the same as them, I have love in my heart the same as them, but I do not act as if I’m superior to other people. Now I will say that I believe that there isn’t tolerance on both sides, but unlike the religious right and conservatives I have never heard of anybody calling for their heads or for them to be killed. I have heard religious leaders saying that we should be killed, that the government should be in charge of it, or that we should be put into internment camps. I have heard them talk about us as if we were subhuman, and like a disease that doesn’t go away. I have been asked when I used to go to church to sign a petition for people be fired based on their sexual orientation not being straight. I have been fired from a job after an accusation of being a Satanist just because of a drawing while the week before I had been tied down into my bed and beaten. The one who had beat me were given in order to apologize to me and they got to keep their job, the leader of the scamp that I worked at was a pastor. I have had advancement possibilities dropped from me after was found out that I was an agnostic. I have had people not want to be my friends because I don’t believe in going to church. I have been harassed at work about going to church when I went to my boss and he took the side of the guy harassing me stating that he’s just trying to save my soul.